Gender is a social construct, but it's not a construct I've ever felt particularly attached to.
Gender is a battlefield. A nonbinary person wearing a dress can be just as radical as a nonbinary person wearing a suit.
Gender is not about 'male' and 'female'. It's about how you feel. It's about your soul.
Gender is a shell game. What is a man? Whatever a woman isn't. What is a woman? Whatever a man is not.